My sister had shared a quote:


" It's been said, 'time heals all wounds'. I do not agree. The words remain. In time, the mind, protecting it's sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessons. But it's never gone."  - Rose Kennedy


I strongly disagree.

As time passes you lose interest in the event altogether and slowly the wound starts to heal. The less you are, the more you heal. In reality, it's not so much the actual action that hurts, it's the betrayal of the one you thought you knew, that actually hurts. Then you start to wonder what other things you thought were true or not all this time!

But the truth is, when you start to see people for what they are, the shock of their actions against you no longer hurt....it will then become you just putting up with their crap and getting tired of it!

And that, my friends, takes time! Time to let people show their true colors!!

Yes there will be scars, but that is just proof that you have been hurt before! If it is scarred, it's also healed! There is nothing wrong with the memory of a wound, no matter how deep or how painful it was. The scar is also proof that you survived and are well today!

Now if you refuse to let go of something, then that would be just like putting a Band-Aid over the wound, and that is not good.

Time will heal your wounds, because only in time will you learn that you can either let the wound(s) heal or not......totally up to you....they are your wounds, no one else's!!


Always

Dr. Nobody